I have been the lifestyle for 25+ years. I do have a long distance gf in the ls. We play separate because of the distance. On occasion, we will seek out a female or couple. We have yet to play that way together. I travel and so most of the time, I message people where I am or headed. I have a dominant side, if a woman is into that. I am  more of a sensual Dom, if I play that way. I respect relationships and I am not a pushy guy at all.  I prefer ongoing relationships and friendships vs one and done. I believe there must be chemistry and would rather shake hands versus ghosting etc. I am very orally skilled and make sure my partner is over the top satisfied. I am good at edging with a more multi-orgasmic woman. I have helped many women squirt for the first time. I do love a squirter. Anything else, just ask me. I only play with those that use condoms for penetration outside of their relationship/spouse. I am not judging and hate them too, but always use them.