We have been married for 4 years and have always wanted to try a threesome or foursome. We don't do bars or clubs so opportunity for those interactions is limited. We do have children so discretion is a must. I have always been bi-curious and my husband would like a curvy woman but not as big as I am right now. Issues due to child bearing have made it difficult to get myself back in shape. I am 200ish lbs and 4'10" so if that is a major turn off we understand. We look forward to meeting new people and having the opportunity for adult play. We must have someone is who is mature enough to have and keep clear boundaries.