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ok so my wife and i have attended a club a couple times with the intentions of finding a couple to play with. We really want to find a couple but maybe we arent out going enough due to nervousness. Is there a good way in a swingers club setting to basically advertise we want to fuck other may sound silly.

It’s easy. First realize that if you are at a swingers club you and the couples you talk to are probably there for the same reason. Don’t be nervous. Pick a couple who seem to be around your age and attractiveness. Walk up to them and introduce yourself and your wife. 

Just start a conversation. If they smile and seem to like talking to you you are halfway there. If everybody seems friendly and the conversation has gone well it’s time to ask the big question. We usually compliment them by saying that they seem like a fun couple and then say we would like to go in the back and play. 

You will either get a yes or a no. 

If you get a yes, congratulations. If you get a no then be polite and thank them for their conversation. Then pick another couple and try again. 

If you just sit at a table and drink and watch people your chances of playing are very slim. You have to move around and talk to people. 

we are pretty new to this.  We have attended parties before with experienced friends. We are wanting to know how to go about finding or where to look to find parties, clubs, and individuals that are close to us

I'm having a big O party if wanna come hmu

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so before all this Covid-19 shit started I took my wife to R John’s off Tesoro drive - well she is not too swinger incline but notice other people were giving signals and well story short - left the place and right in the parking lot I fuck the living soul out of her 😜

hi

I'm Garret 

does anyone know of a swingers group in Longview Tx

Hey any Akron Ohio 

Any couples around Nashua or Hudson NH looking for single bi curious male

Any couple looking for a guy in San Antonio 

hi everyone Im Melanie and my husband name is David we are new to the lifestyle but been married 8 years

🙄 Hello  Am Newland Nervous About The Swinger  Lifestyle I'm Orriganally From  Illinois Were My Ex Wife And I WEREN'T Swingers Which We Enjoyed Very Much  So I Am Still  Nervous  Thanks ForcThe Support