Virginia Friends is an upbeat lifestyle club that holds theme dances once a month at a Richmond, VA area hotel. Meet loving, caring, open & honest couples and single ladies in a safe, NO pressure atmosphere. We are not a dating service and we never give out the names of members to any third party who's only interest is to "hook-up" with someone outside of our club environment. Your privacy is completely safe with us. No single men, cheaters, or drugs! We always welcome new couples and single ladies from mild to wild. Special seminars are held for newcomers so you can ask questions and put any fears you may have to rest. 

If you are open to fun, adventure, and looking to meet like minded people please take your time and read through our site. You will find most if not all the information you seek within. 

FAQs
How do we become members of your club? Is there a membership fee?

Joining Virginia Friends is very simple. All you need to do is pick a social you would like to attend and RSVP for that date. Most couples do this the same month the social is being held. When you show up for the social you will be asked to fill out your new membership forms and pay an annual membership fee (found on our Fees and Charges page) along with the regular dance fees. That's all you have to do to join. Although some clubs do not require a membership fee, Virginia Friends is a privately run club and, by law, memberships are required to join and attend club functions.

Are walk-ins allowed, or must we RSVP?

Yes. Walk-ins are allowed, but we highly recommend you RSVP. This will allow us time to enter you into our system and generate your name tags. By RSVPing on time, you will be qualified for reduced event rates when applicable.

What are the fees and charges?

Please go to our Fees and Charges page for listing.

What sort of people are in the lifestyle?

Average people such as yourself. Primarily in the socio-economic middle to upper class. Members are mature, happy, and exploring people with a zest for living and a curiosity of life who on the average enjoy a good relationship. 

Why swing?

Contrary to popular belief couples do not get involved in the lifestyle out of boredom but out of a sense of adventure instead. Basically it is couples who already enjoy a good relationship and want to add another dimension. It is a shared experience that appeals to their sexual and emotional needs and fantasies. Allowing couples to explore these desires together rather than apart. Couples with troubles in their relationship are cautioned not to get involved in the lifestyle.

Should everyone swing?

No. With so much to recommend, like many other things, swinging is not for everyone. If swinging poses a threat, or is not of interest, to either part of a couple, swinging would not be pleasurable therefore not advised. If it is something of interest to both parts of the couple, and you feel able to handle it, explore swinging and the experience. 

Is the lifestyle as fun and exiting as I have heard it is?

You bet it is! It is every bit as erotic, exciting, and fulfilling as you imagine it to be. You can explore your favorite fantasies securely! You can engage in private and intimate sexual activities, share your mate in a threesome, enjoy another couple, or engage in the famous group swinging, all in one evening!

Can our relationship be damaged at a swing club?

As we have stated before, if you are having problems in your relationship, or swing does not appeal to both parties in a couple, swinging is not recommended. But for secure open minded couples, relationships reportedly have generally been improved with swinging. It is a shared activity that promotes understanding, intimacy, honesty, and communication.

Do we have to join any activities?

NO! Absolutely not. You are free to experience your own erotic adventure