Something that i feel needs to be addressed:

Ok lately i have been getting a lot of negative vibes from a lot of people in the LS Community and i’m not one to call anyone out at all but i feel it truly needs to be talked about. I thought the LS was about making new friends not just behind closed doors but outside with Normal people as I know a lot or most of the Couples and Single Ladies on all LS sites would rather play with a couple or Unicorn vs. a Single Male or in most  cases a younger guy and that is okay. I rather have the honest truth then be ignored or Blocked as many have done. I get it there are SM’s in the LS that give myself and other SM’s a bad taste in the LS Community. I will tell everyone this i am not here to add names to some book or make a spouse or wife feel any less of themselves just as i wouldn’t wanna feel.I dove head first into the LS because i am able to express that sexual side and have an awesome time with people that think and feel just as i do without being judged or so i thought.

I know people do not care to read this but for those that do here it goes........I’ve been in LS for 8+ years i have made alot of friends in the LS. I come off shy at first until i am comfortable around a person and can be my funny and chatty self. I’m not in the lifestyle to degrade women or there spouse and make them feel like just a piece of meat. I am here to make friends to where we can have fun together and it not always be about getting them naked and what not. I do have kids so it is hard sometimes to do things at a split second also i am not able to host. I do prefer to have a meet and greet over drinks and or dinner just to see if we can get a feel for each other.