Typical of a lot of men my age. Wife is a few years post menopause... so she is not into sex any more. I still love sex... still need sex. I still love my wife... still love to eat pussy...but....beating off in the shower is getting old... and getting a mistress has it's problems. I do not want a divorce or leave my wife... I just wish she understood and would allow me to explore sex with other people. That probably won't...