hi I'm new to south bend and don't really know people here.  I'm single and not opposed to finding a likeminded female to have a relationship with eventually. I have been a swinger for 16 years both in my marriage and in most relationships in my adult life.  My ex wife and I owned a lifestyle club.  I'm also looking for couples who enjoy a respectfull solo male who is always respectful and doesn't have alot of hamgups in the bedroom.  I love pleasing as well as making fantasies happen for my partners.