I am petite, blonde, blue. I maintain a very healthy lifestyle and have recent clean test. I am not looking for a lot of partners, just one or two single male friends/ lovers for on-going fun. I am small and tight, so I cannot handle a guy who is hugely endowed. I was previously on another swingers site and was overwhelmed with responses, including guys from other states and Countries. I learned from that experience and I have much more stringent standards this time around. I am not interested in druggies, alcoholics, mentally unstable guys. Nor am I interested in obsessive, possessive, controlling guys. I am educated and politically conservative. I am not a convenient whore, prostitute or piece of meat  I am a complex, multi-faceted, person with a brain who expects to be treated with respect and dignity. Just because I enjoy sex doesn't  mean you are doing me a favor by having sex with me. The guy needs to host, as I do not feel safe with men coming to my home, as I have dealt with too many obssessive, possessive, controlling men, both within and outside of the swingers scene. The guys needs to live within an hour drive of Cool, Ca. I enjoy performing oral sex, but prefer a nice hard cock inside me over receiving oral. I am not interested in guys young enough to be my son. My preferred age range is 35 to 55.  If you do not meet my criteria, I will not respond.