I'm 6' tall, 195 pounds. It's 8inches long and the same girth as the tube in a paper towel roll, so you can wrap your hand around that "to get a feel" of how thick I am.    Looking forward to chatting and in the future of possibly meeting a couple that is willing to meet. Can be dominate at times and yes, I've been known to give a spanking or two, but only when needed or deserved