I am not now nor have I ever been in the lifestyle to simply conquest women or to get laid. If I wanted to get laid all I have to do is pick up the phone which I am sure everyone on this site can do exactly the same thing.  I am in the lifestyle over the past 16 years because it is a social realm in which men and women such as ourselves can explore our desires and sexual fantasies without fear of ridicule jealousy drama criticism expectations or judgment and at the same time create and build true sexual friendships both in and out of the bedroom along the way. If you agree with that philosophy we should get along just fine.  ( More information coming soon as I am new to the site)