We are a longterm  married , very discreet type cpl . Been in the Life Style for a number of years. Not all night party types. We enjoy meeting other stable drug free couples for dinner drinks with no expectations on first meets . Mrs does the texting to set up meet. Will email for pix trading. We are D n D free  and expect the same , luv bareback play but if condums a must. All 4 play or no one plays is our thinking , no one gets left out . Mrs is bi and Mr. straight.  We are a full swap couple. Country folk but do make it to the city now and then . We are not tens by any means but not bad on the eye either as we have been told .  We have met many cpls over the years  for dinner/drinks / casino nights ect. and never had any run off screaming yet ,lol ..