We’re going into our third year in the lifestyle, and we have had some amazing experiences with other couples, been to SR and other swinger clubs several times, and even to a few house parties as well. All have made our lives so much more exciting.

We also want to say upfront that we are a soft-swap couple. Since this means a lot of different things to different people, here is what it means to us. We like to find other couples that we can flirt, kiss, touch, get naked, fondle, and have oral sex with. We even love to have sex in front of others to fulfill our exhibitionist side. If all of this is not what you are looking for, then we completely understand.

We always try to make sure that everyone enjoys the experience of playing together. One of our rules is that unless everyone is enjoying themselves, then no one gets to enjoy themselves. So we won't bite on the first date...unless you're into that kind of thing.

We love getting out to listen to live music, going to hot springs (especially the clothing optional ones), going to the mountains for naked camping, or getting a hotel in a random mountain town when we have nothing else to do. All of these are so much more fun when "close" friends are with you. If these sound life fun, then give us a shout.

We’re looking to meet other couples who we can connect with. So ideally within 10-15 years or so of our ages or at least who are in a similar stage in your lives. We are both educated, friendly, well traveled, and have very laid back personalities.

We never have any expectations when we first meet, other than engaging in mature conversations. Apprehensions will almost always be present when meeting new people, but one thing we've always felt was if you are feeling pressured in any way, then you're with the wrong people.

We are just as happy enjoying a good drink and mature conversation as we are at having playtime. It's much more important to us to meet human beings we can connect with, even if that connection is relatively brief. How well you hold a conversation is the key to connections.

If you're new to the lifestyle, we would love to just meet you. But please make sure that your significant other is on board before contacting us. It'll save all of us a lot of time, and probably you a lot of arguments!