In an polyamourous relationship that is quite open for both of us, never married.  Have retired from " The Industry" about two and half years ago to find work with a bit more stability.  Just interested in seeing what is on offer in the world of swinging and joining a couple in particular but also single ladies.  single guys whom might be bi thank you for your interest but i am not that way inclined myself.  Please be respectful of my past career as I usually do not stick around on sites for to long as i either fet people way to interested in working in xxx and the most percular questions, or that my life should be an open book, or i get haters for whatever there problem may be with me, hence why my partner is not on here and will not be on here as she gets x 1000 times worse on any of these types of sites. 

My amazing partner the love of my life is well aware of me setting up this profile to see how things go and we may make it a couples profile down the line, but i really do ask for respect and privacy, i am nothing special just a normal guy like anyone else but a history of working in the adult industry.  Before you ask 1. no i do not have an encyclopedia of STDs, i do not have any at time of setting up this account, i have been tested monthly for the last 12 years.  2.  if i do decide to post a picture of my appendage (if you can do that on here?) yes it is real and no it is not photoshopped or a catfish, feel free to reverse search it if you like (lol you may hit on plenty of simlair shots) but I have taken one just whilst setting up this profile. 3. I will only share my name an identity with those that fit in with and respect what i have stated above, the more questions about that small part of my life the less interesting you become. Why am i saying all this without even finishing setting up the account yet ? Because it has travelled with me and my partner everywhere, with our past proffession into everyday life, job oppurtunities, and any sites related to swinging or alternative lifestyles and fetishes.